Mental Health in Motherhood: Our Stories

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Many women experience struggles with their mental health in motherhood. It can be difficult to understand why this is happening to you, and deciding what to do about it can feel very confusing. Our society has come a long way in recognizing how important mental health is, but unfortunately, there is still some stigma there. I want moms to know that they are not alone. So many women have been there, and are still there.

This is a compilation of stories and experiences from mothers just like you. My goal is that you will find something in this blog post that speaks to you and relates to what you are going through. No matter what you are feeling right now, your life matters and you are worthy. Things can get better.

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Mental Health During Pregnancy, Birth, and Post-Partum

Having a baby can be a really exciting time, but also a really stressful time. A combination of physical factors (hormones) and emotional factors can trigger or worsen a mental illness. Anyone can experience mental illness in motherhood, but there are some circumstances that increase your risk, such as a family history of mental illness, stress, health problems, a traumatic birth, difficulty breastfeeding, or a lack of support.

This is where the journey through depression, anxiety, or other mental health conditions begins for a lot of women. Read on to see how real women experienced symptoms and came to terms with what was happening.

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Depression, Anxiety, and Other Struggles

One in five adults in the United States experience mental illness in a given year. Women are 70% more likely than men to experience depression. These numbers deserve our attention. Mothers who feel like something isn’t quite right may put off getting treatment for lots of reasons. Maybe you’re in denial. Maybe you’re busy. Maybe you feel ashamed that you can’t “handle it.” Maybe you just don’t know what to do. Remember that your health matters. Here’s how a few women waded through the process of coming to terms with mental illness, and a few things that helped them with their mental health in motherhood.

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Parents of Children with Special Needs or Mental Health Issues

Parents of children with special needs face additional levels of stress beyond the everyday parenting struggles. Physical, financial, mental, and emotional demands can take a toll on your long-term health, including your mental health. Some studies state that mothers are at a greater risk than fathers of developing depressive symptoms. Children who experience mental illness have their own challenges as well. These stories shed some light on this particular perspective of mental health in motherhood.

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Treatment and Recovery

Nearly sixty percent of adults (and fifty percent of children) with a mental health condition do not receive treatment in a given year. There are multiple possibilities as to why that may be, but for myself and other women that I know, shame often is a huge barrier to reaching out for help with our mental health in motherhood. There is no shame in getting help in whatever form that looks like for you. There are many options for treatment that you can try. Here’s how a few women were able to find relief from their symptoms and begin to move forward with their lives.

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Encouragement and Support

You can get through this. Things can get better. Below are some uplifting articles that remind us that we are in this together. By sharing what has personally helped them in their own struggles, these women are contributing to a support system that we can all benefit from. Anyone who has suffered through a mental illness knows how difficult it is. The empathy we share for one another is exactly what is needed during those hard times.

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We are with you, mama. If you think it’s time to reach out for help, consult with your doctor or other professional. Mental health in motherhood matters. Don’t wait!

Do you have an article that should be added to this list? Leave it in a comment below!

Visit Nami.org for more information about mental health. If you are in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.

P.S. One thing that has helped me regulate my nervous system, by doing proper deep breathing, is CalmiGo. CalmiGo is a handy little device that coaches you during deep breathing while incorporating several of your senses to calm you quickly. If you want to try it out, use my code DRIVINGMOMCRAZY for a discount!

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Pregnancy, Birth and Post-Partum
Depression, Anxiety, and Other Struggles
Parents of Children with Special Needs
Treatment and Recovery
Encouragement and Support
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4 Comments

  1. It’s amazing that so many loving people are sharing their stories to help others! ❤

  2. I love how open you are about your own mental health journey. It’s inspiring to others.

  3. This is a fantastic resource for someone dealing with a mental health issue. It can take so many shapes and forms and it can feel totally isolating. Love all these unique and different perspectives and stories.

  4. Wow! What a great resource list for so many different aspects of mental health for moms! It is so true that it looks different for everyone and I’m thankful that so many moms are willing to talk more openly about it and share their stories! Thank you for putting this together!

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